Wednesday, December 24, 2014

Merry Christmas & Happy Holidays

Before everybody gets busy with the holiday season, I just wanted to take a moment & wish you all a happy & safe holiday season.

I hope it is wonderful for you all.

Monday, December 22, 2014

EUREKA!!! We have lift off!!!

We finally had a chance to "experiment" with the new we vibe 4 yesterday.

Once the set up was complete, it was easy peasy.

At first He wasn't sure if He would be able to connect with the vibe because it goes thru bluetooth.

(there we were both thinking that perhaps we should have set it up BEFORE he went home).

But both our phones needed to download the app & my phone had to sync with the vibe .. then we made a "love connection" between our phones (seriously my phone kept telling me my lover had control) ...

Then POOF like magic the little vibe that could ... did! It started vibing in it's little stand & MyWolf was excited for His new toy.

"Put it in."

And it's show time.

I don't know who had more fun on Skype ... Him watching me, as He played with the different settings (which I could watch on my phone but "My Lover has control" or me watching His face light up with delight as He played.)

After all is said in done .... we definitely have a fun new toy to play with.

I can't wait til we play without the benefit of skype!

Friday, December 19, 2014

There's an APP for THAT?!?!?!?!

the We Vibe 4

This is the sex toy MyWolf got me for Christmas!!! We had fun playing with it. But I suspect He will have more fun playing with it from Texas. 

As far as I know, this is the first sex toy that comes complete with it's own app!

Perfect for the LDR's. 

MyWolf can control it from where ever He may be .. including out in the oil fields of Texas.

We have not had a chance to put it thru it's paces via the app yet because MyWolf has been working none stop since He got home from His visit but I am sure once He gets an opportunity He will be all over that app. 

I will most definately post the results! ;) 

The link for anybody who is interested: 

Thursday, December 18, 2014

Snow, Poutine AND Beaver Tails!!!

My Wolf & I had another excellent weekend together, although all too soon it was over & He was on the way back to Texas.

He flew in on Friday. It was so much fun to meet Him at the airport. I have never really had a chance to do that before. Wait for a loved one to walk thru those security gates at the airport. I quite liked it!

Very exciting.

We rented a car for the weekend. And much to His utter joy ... we got a Dodge Charger. He is a truck man from way back but only in the past few months has been thinking about buying a Charger .. this was the perfect opportunity for a long test run. He was very impressed. Not to mention, discovering the joy of heated seats! ;)

Christmas came early at our house ... literally as soon as we got home from the airport. I am a very spoilt kittie.

There was a new sex toy (that deserves it's own post)
A new tablet
Some Star Wars figures
AND ....

this wonderful Man of mine, conspired with one of my besties & got me a CUSTOM MADE LIGHTSABER!!!!

OH MY! He certainly does know His way to this girl's heart! Seriously ,.. talk abut shock & awe!

I got Him (okay really me) a new flogger.

Oh how I have missed being flogged. Is it just me? I just love the flogger .. I find it relaxes me.

He was less impressed with his "wookie" bathrobe though ... although He did wear it & found it nice & fuzzy & warm. ;)

It did not go back to Texas (but then He doesn't need it there)

But the best gift (according to Him) was "free" ... I gave Him a set of my dog tags (real from my military days). Free but priceless on the sentimental scale. I am kinda schmoopey like that.

And my girlfriend literally cried when she saw it!

Oh and of course I got Him lots of snow too! ;)

Anywho ...

It was a jammed packed weekend.

Saturday night, we went out to a Brazilian BBQ with my favourite people. It was so awesome to see everybody bonding & getting along so well. Even MyWolf & MyBrat had a private bonding moment!!!

It was a fun filled night, full of great conversations & lots of laughter, oh & an endless stream of meat on "swords" ... We went out for coffee afterwards. I seriously thinking we could have went all night.

On Sunday we drove down to my hometown for the ritual "meet the parents" event .... after we stopped to get some poutine.

(for those who don't know ... poutine is a french Canadian specialty, french fries & cheese curds, smothered in gravy)


MyWolf LOVES poutine (they haven't even really heard of cheese curds in Texas!!!!!)

(He only had it 3 times this visit!)

We had a traditional Sunday family dinner with the parent units. It was nice & I think everybody got along really well. They had met before ... one day at the cottage, via skype but apparently it's just not the same as face to face. It was a nice quiet visit.

Finally on Monday, we had the day for ourselves.


Sleep in?

Not a chance.

We had to get downtown for His Beaver Tail.

Another delicacy we have here, that is a must for everybody who comes to Ottawa. Even Barrack Obama got a beaver tail when he was here.

a traditional beaver tail with cinnamon sugar

Daddy's Beaver Tail with chocolate & bananas

Apparently, it's the breakfast of champions. ;) 

We did a little bit of shopping. I needed to get His son a Christmas present (anything for video gaming is good). 

And more poutine for lunch ... of course. 

The rest of the day was spent, just packing up his suitcases & lounging around the house. We had to be at the airport at the ungodly hour of 0430 the next morning so we just wanted to relax & enjoy our togetherness. 

And unfortunately, my fibro reared it's ugly head & I ended up with a horrible migraine that took a long while to get under control. *sighs* 

He has never been around when I have been sick before. 

It was amazing. He just cradled me in His arms & tried to soothe the pain away. 

I have never had that before.  

I could get use to it. 

All too soon though, it was time for another farewell. They are so hard.

I had never greeted somebody at the airport before and I had never had to watch somebody leave before either. *sighs* 

It's always so hard to say goodbye .. until the next time, of course. 

Friday, December 12, 2014


We are heading into an awesome weekend!

In approximately 12 hours MyWolf's plane will be landing at the airport.

Silly Daddy wanted to come to Canada ... in DECEMBER!!!!

We will be celebrating lots of milestones this weekend ...

Our first Christmas
Eight months of being together
Our fifth IRL get together
Meeting my parents & my besties.
Poutine & Beaver Tails too!

We are so lucky that, even though, there are approx 3200kms between us (sorry I don't know what it is in miles) ... we have managed to be with each other 4 times already.

I am truly blessed.

Monday, December 1, 2014

Sex & Star Wars. Cosplay in the Kink

I had an interesting (bordering on offensive) conversation with SafeD yesterday morning.

It all started by him sending me a picture of some sort of lightsaber dildos or something ... I don't know really cuz the link didn't work. He said he would put them up on fetlife but I never looked. I don't really care to look.

I have a thing about the dirtying of Star Wars. I don't know .. I just take my Star Wars very seriously, I guess.

But I don't like it.

I see alot of crap on tumblr, far too many selfies of pretty young thangs in the R2D2 bathing suit or naked chicks wearing Darth Vader or Stormtrooper helmets. The worst (for me) is seeing girls with FX lightsabers turned on & shoved up their twats as far as they can go.

I get it .. I do. But no thanks.

SafeD & I pretty much got in to an argument over facebook messaging yesterday. I said I don't do Sex & Star Wars .. the he proceeded to tell me how he got invited to a Star Wars themed play party but it was in Vancouver so obviously couldn't go.

I said I would never go to a play party .. especially a Star Wars themed one.

He couldn't understand my hesitation. "Alot of cosplayers are into kinky fuckery" and "kink doesn't have to be about sex"

To which I pointed out that MOST cosplayers do not do it for charity. I do.

"I have 2 kinky friends, that have Princess Leia costumes"

I don't care ... I have at least 3 friends that "troop" as Slave Leia ... it does not mean they are going to role play,or get their kink on, in them.

In the beginning of my relationship with myWolf ... I was going on a troop & He wanted me to wear my ben wa balls. When I say that, I just sort of stopped & stared at the screen for a couple of minutes.

.. first thinking .. and then choosing my words carefully.

He was disappointed & maybe a little mad at first but He got it in the end.

I did not feel comfortable, no matter how discreetly it was, introducing kink into my weird little Star Wars world. Not when I was going to be around children all day.

We deal with children .. ALOT ... we raise money for charity, mostly children's charity.

To me, it is just wrong to mix the two together.

That moment, with me scrambling, trying to make myself understood to myWolf, was sort of a defining moment. It was the first time I really had my 2 worlds clash.

I do understand that alot of geeks are into kink ... I do understand that there is alot of role playing in kink (not for me though .. just not into it).

I am weird about Star Wars. I take Star Wars very seriously. I have great passion for my trooping and my Star Wars family.

I am a freak when it comes to Star Wars & I wouldn't have it any other way.

And yes I pretty much have put Star Wars as a hard limit.

Trooping is definitely off limits.

myWolf has even been to a troop with us, albeit a very small troop but He gets it. He understands what it means to me & I am so grateful for that.

THIS is why I do what I do

As for SafeD, he is utterly clueless. The man has been in the very public side of this lifestyle for most of his life. Play parties, and multiple play partners etc etc. He can not understand why others in the lifestyle do want to do it too.

Hmmm, the other side of a narrow mind, maybe?  

Anyway, it was just kinda niggling in the back of my mind all day so I thought I would share. 

Happy Monday ;)