I love "for the love of a sub" (from tumblr) ... He writes very honestly and thoughfully.
online D/s relationships
I recently came across this article (link above)
Anyway, having an online D/s relationship IS alot like fantasy. I have seen alot of different types of relationships online. Some are very beautiful and genuine. Most I find have an air of phoniness to them .. they are not real .. and they tend to overcompensate for the fact that it is fantasy (if that makes sense). I think it's just the nature of the beast.
Wolf and I are online all the time. We text all day & we skype at night. It's the next best thing to being there.
It doesn't matter what we do .. whether we play or not. We just are. We play ... we talk .. we play and talk. *smiles*
He is out "on location" right now .. working the "graveyard" shift. We just finished skyping ... because He had to go .. something broke. But anyway, it's fun .. Him sitting his truck, explaining his job to me. It's like being at work with Him. The oil field is quite the interesting place to be. He thinks I'm weird cuz I find it all very fascinating.
But I digress ....
Like I said, it's the next best thing to being there. But we do make an concerted effort to spend time together in real space. We have been really lucky that way. His job does not allow for Him to have much time off .. hardly any actually. And the distance ... But we manage to make it work.
It's been just about 7 months now since we got together (wow - 7 months already!) and we are preparing for our 5th visit together. Considering the time constraint and the considerable distance (don't even get me started on air travel!!!) we have done really well.
We even have a long term plan in the works.
So yes, online relationships can & do work .... LDR's can & do work.
You just have to want it bad enough.
.... oh and for our fifth visit He insists on coming here ... in December! .. because He wants to experience Canada in winter! .... Silly Man! ;)
true devotion.
ReplyDeletemick
yes .. on both our parts :D
DeleteBrave guy!
ReplyDeleteMy mom and step-dad have been in an ldr for most of their marriage thanks to their jobs. Right now they're about 3 hours apart and only see each other on weekends but for a few years while dating they were several hundred miles apart and visits were only a few times a year. Not sure how they do it but they're still very happy and together after fifteen years.
Yay for long-term plans!!
Aurora
That's awesome Aurora! That is true devotion! ;)
DeleteI salute You...not sure how i would do LDR.....sounds like you two have i figured out. Sounds like Santa will be visiting you early.....Yeah...and it is almost December:)
ReplyDeletehugs abby
I am not sure if we have it figured out .. we are definately a work in progress. It's not always easy. Nothing can replace the phyiscality of being together but with the ablity to chat throughout the day & the skyping .. it feels like we ARE together all the time.
ReplyDelete... 25 days til "Christmas" but who's counting!! ;) ;) ;)
It works because we work on it. It works because your my awesome sauce. It works because we talk honestly.
ReplyDeleteWolfdreams514
YOU are my awesome sauce!!! *kisses*
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